Tribute to Mom

#Inspiration, mom, mothers dayMother’s Day is a bittersweet time for me. Twenty years ago, on Mother’s Day weekend, my mom went to her eternal home. After all these years, I still miss her. If I concentrate hard enough, I can almost hear her voice.

No longer can I share my life, ask for advice and learn from her quiet wisdom. She gave me all she could when she was with me. Now I draw on those memories as I navigate my life.

Recently I was told my mom would have been proud of me. Oh, how I cherished those words.

Mom loved me enough to ensure I learned what was needed to have a fulfilling life. This was much more than separating the whites from bright colours when I did the laundry, or not letting the potatoes boil dry!

She taught me to be polite and respectful.

Her example showed me the value of service to others. I learned giving is receiving. To this day volunteering is still one of the most rewarding parts of my life.

Although I didn’t always appreciate it at the time, she helped me learn appropriate discipline is a form of love. I learned to be honest and responsible.

When I did something wrong, she was forgiving. This taught me to be honest about my failures. I also learned the freeing power of forgiving others.

The twinkle in her eyes and quick wit ensured I would appreciate fun and laughter. Her ability to laugh at herself helped me learn not to take myself too seriously.

Mom’s deep love of family helped me see the beauty in committed relationships. She loved and accepted each of us despite our flaws and weaknesses.

I know my mom was proud of me because she told me so in her final days. I like to think she’d be proud of the woman I’ve become today.

The best way to honour mom’s memory is to pass her wisdom and love on to the young women who follow behind me, so they, in turn, may pass it on. I look at my daughter, my daughter-in-law and my granddaughters and know she’d be as proud of them as I am.

4 thoughts on “Tribute to Mom”

  1. Beautiful Tandy, a wonderful tribute to your mom and an
    inspiration to all of us!
    Happy Mothers Day!
    Hugs
    Anne

  2. Lovely dear Tandy. Your Mom was a gem. I remember the time we had her over for the night. She attended a Terry Winter Banquet we had at our church in Abbotsford. She told me later that night she made sure she was God’s child. She was my forever favorite aunt. We visited her quite often in White Rock days. Happy beloved memories.

    Have a blessed Mother’s day Tandy. You are passing the baton on well to the next generation.

    1. Thank you, Shirley. I know my mom wasn’t perfect but in her perfect imperfection she taught me so much.
      Happy Mother’s Day to you as well.

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